My girlfriend’s vagina smells very strongly and I’m not sure how to tell her
What is this problem?
This is a recurring relationships question: 2 separate Reddit threads asked a version of it on Oct 24, 2026, in r/relationship_advice. It reached #6 in the daily ranking. The threads keep coming back to the same themes: feel, feeling, okay, stuck, tell. That repetition is the signal — many people are hitting the same wall, so it's worth understanding before you post your own version.
How often does it come up?
| Date | Daily rank |
|---|---|
| Oct 24, 2026 | #6 |
Where is it being discussed?
- r/relationship_advice: Do I (51f) tell her (28f)?
- r/relationship_advice: 21m and 20f I’m feeling stuck is it okay to tell her how I feel?
What's a sensible first step?
General relationships checklist (not specific advice for this thread):
- Separate facts from interpretations: write what happened, then what you assumed it meant.
- Decide what outcome you actually want before you talk.
- Use 'I' statements and pick a calm, private time for the conversation.
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