My 4yo do not listen
What is this problem?
This is a recurring parenting question: 2 separate Reddit threads asked a version of it between Oct 22, 2026 and Oct 29, 2026, in r/Parenting. It has appeared in the daily top list on 2 different days, peaking at #590. The threads keep coming back to the same themes: everyone, listen. That repetition is the signal — many people are hitting the same wall, so it's worth understanding before you post your own version.
How often does it come up?
| Date | Daily rank |
|---|---|
| Oct 22, 2026 | not shown |
| Oct 29, 2026 | #590 |
Where is it being discussed?
What's a sensible first step?
General parenting checklist (not specific advice for this thread):
- Look for the pattern: when, where and with whom the behaviour happens.
- Check basics first: sleep, hunger, screen time, big changes at home or school.
- Stay calm and consistent; pick a few clear rules with predictable consequences.