My ex broke up with me because of long distance but still calls me every day. What does he want?
What is this problem?
This relationships question came up in 1 Reddit thread between Oct 21, 2026 and Oct 22, 2026, in r/relationship_advice. It has appeared in the daily top list on 2 different days, peaking at #103. The thread centres on: because, broke, call, distance, every, long. That repetition is the signal — many people are hitting the same wall, so it's worth understanding before you post your own version.
How often does it come up?
| Date | Daily rank |
|---|---|
| Oct 21, 2026 | #103 |
| Oct 22, 2026 | #332 |
Where is it being discussed?
What's a sensible first step?
General relationships checklist (not specific advice for this thread):
- Separate facts from interpretations: write what happened, then what you assumed it meant.
- Decide what outcome you actually want before you talk.
- Use 'I' statements and pick a calm, private time for the conversation.
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